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If you're finding yourself almost desperately trying to get the attention of a man you're already deep into a relationship with, or a new man who you just KNOW likes you, you may be - instinctively - doing all the WRONG things. And it's not your fault. We women have been taught to treasure men so much, to consider them to be such prizes, that no matter what we do, or how "cool" we try to be, our emotions get caught up when we're around a man we like. Have you ever felt like everything would be "okay" in your relationship if you could just really "get" his attention? But you find yourself struggling about what to do and how to behave? Whether to run to meet him when he comes home or just say "Hi," and "How's your day?" Whether to ignore him or invite him out? Call him or forget about him? Turn to him in bed and try to get something started again, or stay up sleepless? Where you start to feel like nothing you do is ever going to get you what you want, whether it's a new man you've just seen or the man you're with right now who's been taking you for granted? And it feels like it's just always going to be the same, and it's just too much hard work? I know how frustrating and painful that is. When I was "between" men, and I either had my eye on a man, or there was no man in sight, I felt such a sense of competition with other women it made me feel sick to my stomach. I always felt so "on edge," like I was always in a kind of "store window display" if a man showed up. Like I had to preen and be cute and clever to get his interest. And if there were lots of men, it was like being in a candy store with closed counters. I felt like I had to "go get" the men. Almost hunt them down - knock on the closed glass cases they were behind - in order to try to make contact. I hated it. I hated the results, too. I often worked so hard at it that I successfully went home with a man, or got a date with a man - sometimes even a short-term "relationship". It never even occurred to me that there was another way to do it. Until I met my husband, and I was in a mental place I'd never been before, where I'd stopped working so hard. My husband approached ME, and he wasn't a loser. Instead of jumping at the opportunity, or falling into my pit of anger and despair from all my past "relationships" that never worked out, I just Leaned Back and let him run the show and row the boat. And he never once let me down. Until we were married. Then, a new kind of need and desperation got a hold of me. After a year and a half of marriage, he pulled away. And there I was, stuck. It wasn't like another one of those Imaginary Relationships where he'd walk away after 2 months. We were MARRIED. He was a good man, and he wasn't going anywhere. And yet, all I could see ahead of me was this empty, cold, angry life - not at all the romantic dream I'd expected when I married him. And that's when I put two and two together. ***Self-esteem is the key to getting love from a man. If you don't feel good about yourself, you'll almost automatically be attracted to and attract a man who doesn't feel good about himself, either - and so he will be incapable of loving YOU. No matter how much you do or how sweet and sexy you are, and how many things you do and say the "right way" you will never change your relationship until you start to change the way you feel about yourself. And it's actually EASY! And FAST, too. My Heart Connection Toolkit is designed to help you do that - to raise your self-esteem and get you believing the truth - which is that you are FABULOUS, and you CAN have EVERYTHING you want. The Toolkit is all about raising your self-esteem - from the inside out, and from the outside in, too - by using words and body language with men that will HELP you raise your self-esteem instead of beating it up. |
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