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Rori Raye Dating Advice Holiday Love. Wishing for Love and Comfort on Holidays
If you're wishing for a great relationship this holiday season, or wishing your man would stop stalling and start moving toward a long-term commitment, I know you can have it happen for you.

We're so used to "wishing" as if what we wish for could never come true, but I saw my love life turn around in weeks, and so can you. It doesn't take magic or fairy dust - it just takes a new, true understanding of how men and relationships work, a bit of practice using my Tools, and a little bravery.

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Are you finding yourself wishing that the Holiday time of year could be a peaceful, thoughtful, lovely time instead of the painful, frustrating and not-so-good feeling one it often turns out to be?

Not just family issues, and having to see people you may not get along with, or even WANT to see, but the kind of pressure it puts on your relationship?

It's as though the "Holidays" bring out both the best in us and the worst.

You want to give, and yet "giving" turns out to be the best way to PUSH a man away.

You want to receive, but your man isn't the greatest "giver" around.

It feels like it should be a touchy-feely time of year, when things are special out in the world and special between you and your man.

The parties should be fun and romantic, and candlelight should fill all your time together.

And instead, it feels tense and off-balance.

For me - I wonder if the Holidays weren't just a big lead up to Valentine's Day?

I wanted to make sure I had a "solid relationship" for the Holidays, because, without one, the "blues" were sure to catch me.

At least, with a "boyfriend" around, I could get through the season with some picture in my head that all was right with the world, and with me.

But, for all except one year I can remember (and, of course it's the only one I WANT to remember), the holiday season felt lonelier and more frustrating than any other time of year - even Valentine's.

Even now, happily married, I know how the Holidays can sometimes seem like a not-so-good- feeling time.

And now I have a way to make it so much better for both of us.

All the Holidays, whether you celebrate Christmas or Hanukah or Kwanzaa or the Winter Solstice, are about something meaningful that happened in the past, and represent something meaningful right now.

They're about celebrating meaningful, life- altering moments in history that inspire us to celebrate meaningful, life-altering experiences in the right here-and-now.

They're about community, family, Universal love, religion and spirituality, human love and compassion, and values that are important to us.

And sometimes, we just don't feel all that grand.

Sound familiar?

Sometimes we're just not feeling those values in our lives at this moment, and perhaps you're feeling that important, meaningful things are missing from your life right now.

And it all comes together at the Holidays in such an EMOTIONAL way..

It feels right now like it should be a completion of some kind, like the whole world is getting one year older.

Sometimes it feels like everything is getting older, but it's not getting better.

And sometimes it feels like just one more year.

One more set of Holidays to get through.

So - here's a way to see this whole thing in a GOOD FEELING way - and a way that will INSPIRE a man to see YOU as HIS gift for the Holidays.

Let's celebrate YOU!

If the first thing you thought when I said that was - who me? - you're soooo not alone.

The last thing ANY of us were ever taught was that WE'RE SPECIAL.

You and I were taught to just fit in, to be like everyone else, and to compete with other women for men.

But that's not how it works.

A man wants YOU because you are you, and you're NOT like anyone else.

And there's no way you CAN be like anyone else - and so there is no way you'd EVER have to compete with ANY woman - no matter who she is or what she looks like.

I know this to be absolute fact: You are absolutely UNIQUE.

There is no one in the world exactly like you.

I believe you're here for a reason, too.

And I also believe we don't always know what that reason is right at this minute, but that we can, and we WILL, and that THAT'S what this holiday season can be about!

So, what if the holiday season was about celebrating how you are the only one like you on this planet, and that the man you want will want ONLY you (because you are the only you - like some rare, exotic, highly prized artwork), and for once, on this holiday season, you don't have to DO ANYTHING to prove it?

You just ARE.

What if we celebrate the meaningful, hugely important history of the holiday season, and then celebrate how WE can APPRECIATE the meaning WE bring to everyone around us.

Wouldn't that put a glow in your eyes and send out a "vibe" that would make your man take notice?

Instead of trying to celebrate HIM and giving to HIM and thinking about HIM - what if you celebrate YOURSELF, and allow him to participate in the celebration by being WITH you and giving TO YOU.

I know how hard you've worked to bring love into your life.

And I know that working hard at a relationship is exactly the thing I want to help you NOT to do.

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Right now is a very good time to APPRECIATE how totally much you DESERVE the love you want!

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