Relationship Advice Blog Marriage Advice Relationship Help Love Tips Dating Tips Testimonials

Relationship Advice Articles for Women. Proven Relationship Advice Can Help You Fix Any Relationship Problem You Are Having.

Rori Raye Dating Advice Relationship Advice Articles and Newsletters
Read free tips on relationship or sign up to use Rori Raye’s exclusive connection tools. HaveTheRelationYouWant.com features the best online relationship advice articles available for women. Whether you are in a long term relationship or a short term relationship, Rori Ray’s relationship coaching experience can help you fix your failing relationship. Make your boyfriend want to commit to your relationship, bring back the love and have the relationship you want.
  • Anger Ruining a Relationship: Is the anger you feel coloring everything in your relationship? Where you’re so angry with him so much of the time you find yourself turning it around and blaming yourself? If you're having trouble managing anger, and it’s turning into depression, you’ll want to listen to my Reconnect Your Relationship CD program. It has a special section on the anger, guilt, fear and depression cycle and teaches you how to break it, fast.

  • Are You Ready For a Real Relationship: If you’ve ever found yourself in the middle of a great, hot relationship that’s suddenly going cold, you know it feels like he’s pulling the rug out from under you. It’s a total surprise. It catches you completely off–guard. And it feels so underhanded and unfair. What’s worse, if that’s possible, is it makes you feel angry and helpless, both at the same time, and it’s almost paralyzing.

  • Attract Your Man: If you’re watching helplessly while your man stops calling, stops treating you the way he used to, and just seems to be getting more and more distant no matter what you do to try to save your relationship, I know I can help you. It doesn’t take hard work to turn things around. It just takes a new understanding about men (they don’t work the way we women have always been taught), and a new way to talk to them and just be around them.

  • Breaking Up and Getting Back Together: Breaking up with a man because he’s not committing to you, and then bouncing back to him when you can’t stand the separation, will never work to bring him closer. Men will call you and text you because they are lonely and miss you in their loves – but it doesn’t mean they want a serious, real relationship with you – it just means they don't want to lose you from their lives.

  • Building Self Esteem: Here you are, about to have everything you’ve ever wanted, and finding yourself sabotaging it with unfounded jealousy. So, first, we have to deal with fear. Fear of being hurt takes a poor second to having everything you want and feeling afraid that you don’t deserve it. So let’s start with that.

  • Deal With Pain From a Bad Relationship: If you’re feeling totally frustrated by a man who "says" he "loves you," and that he "wants to be with you," but just can’t seem to follow through and move the relationship forward, I know how hard it is to know what to do. When a man puts out "mixed signals" it’s difficult to "get" what’s really going on – especially if we’re all bound to him with our hormones and our hearts.

  • Dealing with Breaking Up & a Yo–Yoing Relationship: Instead of him always being sure of you, and always being sure there’ll be the same problems in the relationship that there were before, and he can count on arguments and all kinds of drama, and for you to overfunction and take care of everything – you’ll be calm, peaceful, loving yourself, busy with your life, and taking your time about whether or not he’s what you want.

  • Definition of a Real Man – Men With Feminine Energy: If you’ve ever been involved with a feminine energy grown–up man, you know what it’s like to feel incredibly frustrated. Because, as sweet and sexy as he is, if he really wants to be the "girl" in your relationship – all the time – you’re going to feel very stuck taking charge and being the "man" all the time.

  • Get His Attention and Keep It Without Trying: If you’re struggling in a relationship that feels insecure and uncertain, and would give anything to feel more solid and that your future with the man you care about will be the way you dream – and just know it could be – you have all the hope in the world. Just because things feel off–balance and off–course right now, you can make small changes in how you feel about yourself inside, how you talk and listen to your man, and the way you see the relationship that can dramatically turn things around.

  • How to Deal With Jealousy: If the man you love has other women in his life, as friends or ex–wives or girlfriends, and you feel eaten up by jealousy and insecurity, you aren’t alone. It’s challenging to stay peaceful and calm and grounded when you actually feel so off balance. Self–esteem and confidence can turn all that around, but when you feel gripped by fear of losing him, I know from my own experience that it’s hard to stay focused and just know what to do.

More Relationship Help Articles Below

What You’ll Learn From Rori Raye
  • How to save your relationship practically overnight – without work, games or strategies – and just by being yourself

  • How to instantly create a deep emotional connection with your man – no matter how angry you are and how much you want to quit – no matter what your marriage is like right now

  • What to do if he’s withdrawing, being cold, and pulling away from you.

  • How to bring back passion and romance.

  • How to tap into the power of your Feminine Energy to open up even a closed–off man
  • How to speak so he can really hear you
To Get Your FREE Heart Connection Tools...


Relationship Tips for Women (continued)
  • How To Have a Happy Relationship and Make a Man Happy: The magic thing here is – what makes a good man happy is to make us happy! That sounds simple, too, but when was the last time you let a man make you happy? When was the last time you let a man keep you exclusively, but not see you or call you often enough to make it a real relationship? If you’re in a situation like that right now, there a lots of real things you can do to turn this around.

  • How to Have a Healthy Relationship: Once we can see clearly if a man really is able to do a serious relationship, and that he wants to do it, then the hardest question of all to deal with is whether or not it’s us he wants. Some of that we can control – our part of speaking to him and being with him in a way that attracts him deeply. And some of it we can’t.

  • Identify Imaginary Relationships & Stop Feeling Hurt: First thing – it really helps to identify the feelings that are Relationship Red Flags. Red Flags that tell you, loud and clear, you’re in an imaginary relationship and not a Real Relationship. And the only way to really know what’s going on is by feeling it. If you try to think about what’s going on, and use your brain to work things out and make sense of things, you end up talking yourself in and out of good and bad ideas.

  • Is Your Man Hot and Cold In a Relationship: If you’ve ever found yourself confused about a man’s feelings for you and spending your valuable love and energy second–guessing yourself all the time, it’s time to reverse all that and put yourself first. You can do it so much more easily than you think – no matter what anyone else tells you.

  • Learning How to Love Yourself: The key to this whole thing for you is in your last sentence – "I’m so scared" and "I feel like my life has passed me by" and "I can just never say or do the right things." Before you can conquer this fear, which is sparking your jealousy, you have to start loving yourself.

  • Needy Women – Build Confidence and Self Esteem He Loves: If your man is telling you that you’re acting "Needy," and now you’re feeling your confidence just drifting away, you can fix it. You can save your self–esteem and your relationship with it, just by understanding how men respond to your words and body language, and learning how to talk to him – and to yourself – in new ways that will change things around quickly.

  • Physical Chemistry and Emotional Connection: If the man you love is not stepping up and behaving like the man you just know he could be, and you’re afraid you’re wasting your time, energy and heart on him, it’s hard to know what to do. Sometimes we focus on trying to understand why he’s acting the way he does, and if we really care, it’s hard not to make excuses for him and hope he’ll "grow up."

  • How Can I Tell If He Wants Me: If you’re feeling frustrated in your relationship on top of all the other emotional, overwhelming things that come up during the holidays, you don’t have to "tough it out" alone.

  • Signs of a Relationship Going Bad and Feeling Hopeless: What if the ways you’ve been thinking about yourself are teaching men to treat you badly? And everything you’ve been doing to create a great relationship or hold onto a relationship, or push a relationship forward are making everything worse? And making you feel even worse?

  • Stop Being Strung Along if a Man is Stringing You Along: If you’re feeling frustrated about where your relationship is going, and starting to wonder if he sees you as a "friend," instead of his "forever" woman, you’re not alone. It can be hard to really see where things stand with a man, especially when he’s being so nice, and warm, and taking you out and spending time with you. And asking him about it never works.

  • How to Be in Control in a Relationship: Men have different codes, different signals, different attitudes toward sex and different meanings attached. Even if they’re decent guys and don’t want to hurt us on purpose, they won’t make us fill out a questionnaire about what we really mean by having sex with them. They just assume it’s meaningless.

  • Talk To Your Man & Communicate What You Want: Learning how to speak from your heart in a way that works with men will blow you away with how powerfully and how fast it gets results, and you can get help to learn exactly how to do it in all of my materials.

  • Understanding a Man’s Feelings and Emotions in Relationships: If you’re like me, going down into that dark tunnel after my man was one of the big mistakes I almost instinctively, always made. I did it with my friends, too. How about you?

  • Understanding How Men Think and How Men Respond to Woman: Men are really easy – they actually say exactly the truth, but most of us women make it so hard on ourselves by trying to "interpret" what a man says on a "deeper level." And most of the time, there isn’t a deeper level. Most of the time it’s pretty superficial.

  • What Men Want in Women – What Men Want in Relationships: If you’ve ever found yourself being a "friend" to a man you really love and want to be in a real relationship with, you are probably doing what we’ve all been taught to do – beating yourself up and trying to figure out what’s going wrong.

  • Reasons To Leave a Relationship: Have you ever found yourself so frustrated with your man, in such a sticky, horrible situation with him that a part of you wanted to send him away, but you just knew there was more to the relationship than what he was showing you – and you just couldn’t let him go?

  • How to Respond When He’s Ignoring You: A man knows he’s behaving badly when he ignores you. He knows it. And the thing he expects is for you to be angry. And if you pretend you’re not angry even when you are, and instead go to being understanding and nice and sweet – even though you feel upset and frustrated and sad, then he’ll get angry at you! Sound familiar?

  • Common Relationship Mistakes: Do you ever feel like NO relationship will EVER work? At least not the way you'd like it to - smooth and easy, loving, exciting, fun, sexy? Maybe it would start out great, he might start out like Prince Charming, but then it all fades away and you're left with a guy who's only half-there?

  • Controlling Jealousy: Have you ever let yourself fall into that pit where you're just plain jealous? It doesn't matter what happened - maybe he looked at another woman when you were out instead of hearing what you were saying. Maybe he danced with another woman at a party you went to together. Maybe it's his ex-girlfriend or ex-wife who always seems to somehow be in the picture.

  • Avoid Being Clingy: Have you ever felt so "needy" and out-of-control and almost desperate that you didn't even want a man to see you that way? But there he is, across from you at dinner, or next to you at the movies, and all you can feel is how ANGRY you are that he didn't call until the last minute? Or how afraid you are that he might be pulling away?

  • How to Stop Giving So Much: Do you ever feel like you just give and give and give? And he just takes and takes and takes? Like a sponge? And he doesn't even know you're giving and he's taking, so he doesn't even appreciate anything you do for him and anything you give to him and anything you feel for him?

  • More Than Just Friends: Picture this: If WE feel only like friends to a man like Vanessa's, and that's all we give to him, and at the same time we go about dating and romancing other men even while we're being friendly and supportive to this one man - THAT could create a sense of attraction and longing for us in him. But the moment we turn toward him with love in our eyes and HE is the one talking about just "being friends," then being supportive and friendly to this man will not work

  • Taking a Break in a Relationship: If the man you want seems to be drifting further and further away, to the point where he's talking about taking a "break" from you and the relationship, and you've tried everything you can to bring him back, then you know that what most of us women have been taught about how to make a man fall in love with us and commit for life just doesn't work. In fact, even your instincts are probably leading you in the wrong direction. It's not your fault.

  • He is not Ready for Relationship: I need some major advice. I have been seeing this guy for 4 months. We go out together, we go to eat, we talk everyday all day while he is at work, but, now all of the sudden he says he looks at us if I was just a friend and not someone to be in a relationship with. So what do I do after putting all this time and effort into him? He knows that I'm in love with him.

  • Use Your Femininity to Attract Him: Do you ever feel that with everything else going on in life, you've had to almost forget how to be a "girl"? The very good news is we've been encouraged to be leaders, and to have powerful, full lives in our community, in business, and in taking care of ourselves and our own needs.

  • Giving Him Space: Feelings are our compass in this world. Our emotions are how we tell what's going on with us inside, and also - what's really going on in our world. How we feel at any given moment is the RESULT of our emotions getting "Triggered" by something. And here, Lillian is not only getting triggered and feeling the good stuff - LOVE and PASSION for this man - she's getting triggered and feeling the bad stuff.

Meet me inside!

Relationship Advice About Rori Raye Article Directory Advice Products Sitemap

We take your privacy very seriously. You can read our entire privacy policy here.
©2008 Have The Relationship You Want, LLC, All Rights Reserved. "Have The Relationship You Want" and "Rori Raye" are trademarks used by Have The Relationship You Want, LLC. By entering, you agree to terms and conditions found here. By entering your email address you are also requesting and agreeing to subscribe to our free email newsletter. You must be 18 or older to enter.