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Are You Jealous? Learn to Overcome Jealousy in Relationships |
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If the man you love has other women
in his life, as friends or ex-wives or
girlfriends, and you feel eaten up by jealousy and
insecurity, you aren't alone. It's challenging to stay peaceful and calm and grounded when you actually feel so off balance. Self-esteem and confidence can turn all that around, but when you feel gripped by fear of losing him, I know from my own experience that it's hard to stay focused and just know what to do. Have you ever been out with your man, maybe at a party, FEELING GREAT, and all of a sudden you notice he's talking with another woman and YOUR HEART STOPS? Every cell in your body screams at you to go strangle her, grab your man by the arm and drag him home, but your head tells you you're nuts? I remember going to a party with a long time "boyfriend" and feeling my heart sink as he pretty much disappeared. I remember trying to act "cool" and just be by myself at the party, talking with people I didn't even know, casually looking for my "man. I finally spotted him in the back yard, deep in conversation, and feeling like there was no way out of this for me. He clearly wasn't with me. "What should I do?" I fought with myself over all my impulses and options - stomping out, picking up another man, going to get him... I remember walking up to him, touching his arm and getting a look from him as though I'd somehow "interrupted" him. Needless to say, that spelled the end of that relationship (though I still managed to drag it out so much longer than I should have). After that, it was hard to not "instinctively" be jealous of other women whenever I was with a man. It was hard for me to tell what was real. Was it okay for him to talk with another woman? Was it okay for him to dance with another woman? And now I know it's not any of that. It's how you FEEL that counts, and whether or not a man CARES how you feel. |
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