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“What If You Could Change The Way Men Relate And Connect With You - So
That He’ll Want To Get As Close As He Can To You - Almost Overnight?”
You can! If you were like I once was, love has beaten you up a bit. You feel hurt and hopeless that you’ll never experience the love you crave and deserve. You’ve been disappointed again and again, and you don’t know if you have the strength to keep trying. You are so worn out and hurt that you are thinking about giving up on love altogether. What a terrible way to feel! Maybe this causes you to stop caring about your appearance - because you don’t think there is a point to it anymore. Or maybe you’ve had one too many bad dates, so you are taking yourself “off the market” entirely. All the men you meet are disappointing or boring, or if you did like him - he just disappeared out of nowhere. Or your relationship seems doomed. You’ve stopped trying to “talk things through” with your man, and you’ve resigned yourself to be without pleasure and affection. Why bother trying when it never works out anyway? You really believe that you will never get love from the man you’re with, or you’ll never find true and lasting love from ANY man. You find yourself thinking that it’s just not going to “happen for you.” That the real love and real intimacy and happiness just isn’t out there for you, and that you weren’t meant to have the kind of relationship other women seem to enjoy with apparently no effort whatsoever. Because getting real love feels SO HARD for you. And this is what you believe, deep down—that you’ll never have the kind of relationship you REALLY want. It’s this negative voice that keeps mocking you every time you have reason to hope. “It won’t work out.” You tell yourself. “Who am I kidding. Why even try?” What this all comes down to is that you simply are afraid to let a man into your heart all the way. Because if you do - if you let yourself be really vulnerable with him - then you expose yourself to crushing disappointment when it doesn’t work out... again. Why Telling Yourself That You Can’t and Won’t Get The Love You Want Is A Critical Mistake... And What To Do Instead To Effortlessly Build A Genuine, Loving Connection With A Man When we’ve been disappointed by love and relationships, it seems impossible to believe that it will work out for you. But here’s a little known secret that changes everything. It’s this belief that actually prevents us from getting what we want. That’s right. We are, and do, what we believe. Your negative, internal beliefs come across to a man as defensiveness, controlling coldness, neediness, or “drama.” These beliefs are often the ROOT CAUSE of all the problems you’re experiencing with men and relationships. They eat away at your confidence, your self-esteem, so that you become either closed off or desperate. Either every man feels “lackluster” or worse... you believe that no man will stick around because he really WANTS to, so you cling desperately to any crumb of affection and attention you get. This is exactly what happened to me so many years ago. My first marriage to a man I adored completely disintegrated, leaving my self-esteem somewhere below floor level. I was working my way through dead-end relationships—some passionate, some creepy, some where I hung on for no reason and I knew it, and some where I hung on, unaware of the heartache that lay ahead. I made a lot of mistakes. I stayed in relationships way longer than I should have because I PUT UP WITH SO MUCH. I did a lot of therapy and “self-help” but nothing worked because I wasn’t changing my CORE BELIEFS about who I was and how I felt about myself. Deep down, I didn’t believe I deserved the kind of love I wanted. So I allowed men to walk all over me, and with every heartache I “proved” to myself that I was really unlovable and incapable of a real relationship. Is it possible, that YOU TOO - without even being aware and conscious of it - are actually pushing a man away and allowing your internal beliefs to become SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECIES? When my love life was about as bad as it could get I barely left the house, I was in such despair. Like you, I wondered why there were no good men around. I wondered why I couldn’t be comfortable around a man. I felt like I just couldn’t lift myself up from the inside. I walked around PRETENDING everything was okay. But it wasn’t. That was when I decided I needed to do something to turn things around. And I did. These ideas were so much deeper than just “positive thinking.” My Heart Connection Toolkit Can Help You Feel Better and Connect With a Man at the Same Time
“After much trial and error, study and research, I discovered new ways of thinking and behaving that actually worked for me. I’m confident they’ll work for you, too.” If you’re feeling in despair as I did, and you’re ready to do what it takes to change the way you relate to a man, or feel about yourself, then I can help. In my Heart Connection Toolkit - How To Instantly Connect With A Man audio CD program, you’ll hear me supporting you with Tool after Tool to help you feel more confident, more natural, more in touch with the “real you.” It’s so easy. All you do is put the CD in and I will lead you into feeling better. The Toolkit is the ONLY Rori Raye program where you don’t have to DO anything. You don’t have to DO the Tools if you don’t want to, you don’t have to practice anything if you’re not up to it - you just put the discs on and listen, and I do it all for you - you just listen to it to get a boost of self-esteem - and the more you listen, the better you feel. The Tools in the first disc are very simple and easy to follow. The second disc it’s all about sitting back, listening, and feeling better. In other words - no effort on your part. I’ll be cheering you on, encouraging you and making you practice and instructing you every step of the way. You’ll never feel alone. A lot of my clients like to put in the CD in the car on the way to a date, or listen to it when they feel particularly down about their love life. I’ll walk you through simple, effective visualizations that will bring out your hidden power and irresistibly alluring feminine energy. The Tools on the CD are in the forms of questions to ask yourself, meditations, dialogues, mantras, and easy How To’s. You’ll be able to do these Tools at your own pace—but the best way to do them is slowly and mindfully, just a little bit each day. And if you just want to sit back and listen to me encouraging you, you can do that, too. You will start to feel better after just listening to the first 10 minutes of me speaking to you! Bit by bit, you will feel the old, tired patterns loosening their grip on you. You’ll become more AWARE of your feelings and desires, even if you’ve been stuffing them down for years in order to make your relationship work. You’ll be able to feel, in your mind, heart, body and soul, the tension and negative thoughts flow out and be replaced with calmer, more confident and loving feelings. You will LOVE YOURSELF more, feel more grateful, and connect to joyfulness again. How will this help you with men? First of all, when you love yourself and you have a peaceful, grateful nature about you, then it’s easy for a man to LOVE YOU. But you’ll also get real-life dialogues and exercises to do WITH a man... whether it’s a man you’re with right now, or a man you meet when you’re running errands or out on the town, at a coffee shop or a dinner party. You’ll know exactly what to say and how to say it so that he can’t help but want to get closer to you. You will become more intriguing and attractive to a man... naturally. You’ll be amazed at how small shifts in the things you say to a man, and in the way you carry your body can literally turn your relationship around overnight. My Heart Connection Toolkit will empower you to have more confidence, be true to yourself and your feelings, and attract a man to you like never before. What You’ll Learn
The Toolkit comes with 2 audio CDS and a bonus workbook that’s purse-sized so you can carry it with you everywhere for support, inspiration, and instant help. When you don’t know what to say or do, just pull out the book and follow my instructions! It’s that easy. Here’s how my Toolkit can transform your love life and the way you feel about yourself:
Get Your First CD Of My As a very special one-time bonus, I’d also like to send you a FREE audio CD from my “Interviews With Relationship Experts” monthly CD interview program. I know how hard it is to find good advice about men and relationships. When I was struggling in my love life, the only women I had to talk to were struggling as much as I was... and even though we shared a lot, we couldn’t really find WHAT WORKED. My friends and family had lots of opinions, but nothing to say that actually helped. I hardly even knew anyone who had a romantic, sexy, fun, loving relationship. I wished they’d taught a class about “How To Do Relationships” back in high school, but they didn’t… If you’re at all like I was, you were expected to learn about love by “watching” and “doing,” and somehow know everything you needed to know “naturally.” The subtle assumption here was that you “get it” just because you were born a woman! So, as a grown woman, I felt “backward” because I couldn’t make everything work and hold my relationship together on my own. I felt almost stupid about men. But the truth was - my friends and I spent a lot of time complaining about men and our relationships because we were stuck doing the same things over and over again. We were just passing on to each other, over and over again, the same information that never worked. Now everything’s changed. Since I turned my own nightmare relationship into the great, 20 year marriage I have now (and been able to see my clients experience relationship success so much faster and easier than they dreamed possible), and become a relationship “expert” myself, I’ve met and worked with so many other experts. Experts who could’ve helped me then, when I was struggling. And experts who can help you NOW. The fastest and easiest way I could think of to get their success stories and secrets to you was to bring them into a recording studio and interview them! My female friends were wonderful, as I know yours are. And I so wish I could have introduced all of us 20 years ago to these experts I now interview every month. Now I want to share all the amazing insights and tips I’m talking about with some of the world’s greatest experts with YOU. If you’re ready, I’d love to bring you into my “inner circle” and share these Interviews with you. In them you’ll hear women (and men, too!) who have not only been through it themselves, and KNOW exactly what to do and not do in the same situations you’re experiencing...but who’ve also spent years successfully teaching women how to have the kind of fulfillment in relationships we all want. Every month I do a live audio interview with someone whose extraordinary experience and insight will make you more successful with men, dating and relationships, and help you make a special man want to come closer to you instead of pull away, and want to commit to you MORE than he wants “freedom”. Here’s How It Works Just for TRYING out any one of my programs, I’ll throw in a one-month FREE subscription to my “Interview Series” as a bonus. And I know you’ll love
your first FREE CD – it’s with Christian Carter, an expert on
dating and relationships who I got to open up about what it’s like to be a man,
how men see and feel about us women, the things that drive men away, and the
things that rope them in.
As with everything you purchase from me, if you don’t feel The Toolkit is helping you (I know it will - put it in your ipod, computer, CD player or car, listen to it and do the Tools as often as you can, and you’ll see a difference in the way men relate to you in just days), then return it for a refund, or email me and I’ll help you personally through the Tools. With Love,
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