Read very carefully:
Who do we contact?
Have The Relationship You Want
only contacts individuals who specifically request that
we do so or in the event that they have signed up to
receive our free newsletters or have purchased one of our products.
What information do we collect?
Have The Relationship You Want collects information in two categories:
1. Personally Identifiable Information (PII)
- name and e-mail address - provided by you for
registration to receive our free newsletters.
- name, postal address, phone and credit card
information - provided by you when purchasing our
- demographic information - used to improve our
marketing, products and services.
All such information is strictly protected and used only for
delivering the content and products the user has signed up for or
purchased, or for finding other men and women who may find our
information valuable. This information is NEVER used for other purposes and is
NEVER shared with 3rd parties for their own use.
There is a single exception to this. Say you were subscribed to
some newsletter such as "modern world fashion" and the editors ran
a promotion of our site within it, and you followed over to our site,
then subscribed to our newsletter, then at a later date you
In that case, we have to provide back to "modern world fashion"
your email address, so they can exclude you from our future mailings.
No other information other than email address is provided and that
email address is used ONLY to suppress our future emails to you.
This scenario accounts for less than 1% of our newsletter subscribers.
A note about demographic information:
We contract with information providers that help us better understand
people visiting our sites and advertise to those who find our content relevant. We may share
PII with such companies provided that they have explicit policies to not share
our data with any other parties and solely for the purpose of helping us understand
our customers better. This technique is also called “database marketing”. It is
practiced by virtually every US corporation. Every US consumer can
assume that there is a fair amount of available data about them,
including personal data such as buying preferences and education level.
There is no central “opt out” place that we are
aware of. There are efforts underway to reach a standard that
would apply automatically based on browser settings.
Regardless of the state of privacy as a whole, you can avoid
us finding out extra demographic information about you by doing
1. email us using our
2. in the subject line write: “Privacy -
opt out of demographic information”
3. make sure you enter the same email that
you provided as customer or subscriber
2. Anonymous Usage History (non PII)
This information is strictly limited to the history of activities
that the user engaged in while on our site. it does NOT include any
personally identifiable information (PII).
For example, the string "sub+customer" in a cookie (see below for
what cookies are) might indicate that you are both a subscriber AND
The purpose of this information is to improve your experience.
For example, by storing the fact that you are already a subscriber,
we do not need to bother you with an irrelevant subscriber box.
Similarly, by noting that you are a customer, we can "bookmark"
the last video frames you watched in our member area and remind you
of this the next time you visit.
There is a small subset of this history that we use with 3rd
parties, such as Google, for the purpose of measuring and improving
the efficacy of advertising campaigns.
Some of these third parties, aggregate such information across
many websites. This allows them to identify users who are more likely
to be interested in specific offerings like fashion, sports, education
and so on.
As an Internet user, you may experience the results of such
aggregation by noticing how the ads displayed on Yahoo, for example,
better match your interests (the optimistic scenario), or at least
more closely match a website that you recently visited.
Whether you find this annoying and spooky or helpful and relevant,
or perhaps both, you are in good company. This area of Internet advertising
is new and controversial. The tradeoff between privacy vs. commercial
efficiency has a long history, for example the "Do not call" list.
In any event, it is likely that either the government or the industry
will adopt some form of "opt out" capability in the future to address
What are cookies/clear GIFs and how
do we use them?
Cookies: Like many other commercial sites, our site
utilizes standard technologies called "cookies" and clear GIFs to collect
information about how our Site is used. A cookie is a small data text file,
which a website stores on your computer's hard drive (if your web browser
permits) that can later be retrieved to identify you to us. Cookies were
designed to help a website recognize a user's browser as a previous visitor
and thus save and remember any preferences that may have been set while the
user was browsing the site. A cookie cannot be read by a website other than
the one that set the cookie. A cookie cannot pass on a computer virus or
capture any of the Personally Identifiable information.
Clear GIFs: At times, we work with third-party service
partners that employ clear GIFs (also known as pixel tags, single pixel GIFs,
web beacons or action tags) for our benefit to help us measure advertising
effectiveness. Clear GIFs are tiny graphics with a unique identifier, similar
in function to cookies, and are used to track the online movements of our
users. The main difference between the two is that clear GIFs are invisible
on the page and are much smaller, about the size of the period at the end of
this sentence. Clear GIFs are not tied to your Personally Identifiable Information
and only track the visitor traffic and behavior to and on our Site.
Clear GIFs can "work with" existing cookies on a computer if they are both
from the same website or advertising company. That means, for example, that if
a person visited "www.companyX.com", which uses an advertising company's clear
GIF, the website would match the clear GIFs identifier and the advertising
company's cookie ID number, to show the past online behavior for that computer.
This collected information can be shared with the advertising company. We do,
at times, provide such information to our third-party advertising service partners,
but that information never includes personally identifiable information.
How do we store your email information?
Your email information (email address, first name) is stored at the list
server that delivers Have The Relationship You Want
newsletters. Your information can only be accessed by those who help manage
those lists in order to deliver e-mail to those who would like to receive
Have The Relationship You Want's newsletters.
All of the newsletters that are sent to you by Have The Relationship You Want
include an unsubscribe link in them. You can remove yourself at any time from
our newsletters by unsubscribing here.
If you have purchased any of my programs, you will continue to receive mailings related to
your purchase. If you are an affiliate partner, then you will continue to receive mailings related to our affiliate program.
If you would like to be removed from any of these mailings, please contact
my support team and they can assist you.
This policy may be changed at any time at Have The Relationship You Want's
discretion. If we should update this policy, we will post the updates to this
page on our Website. This policy was revised September 19, 2011.
send us your question by going here.
You may also send a letter to:
Attn: "Have The Relationship You Want" Support Team
9450 SW Gemini Dr. #95558
Beaverton, OR 97008-7105