Now you can learn exactly what to do and what to stop doing to quickly transform your relationship, and start feeling so confident and happy inside that your man will CRAVE being with you – always.
If you’re ready to see your love life transformed almost overnight and completely change the way your man sees you so that he wants to be with you all the time… then I have some questions for you…
If you’ve answered “Yes” to any of these questions – you are absolutely not alone. I was able to write those questions because I once answered “Yes” to ALL of them. I was where you are now. But then everything changed…
When my marriage first started to go bad, it came out of nowhere. He’d always paid me so much attention and I believed he adored me and we were deeply connected. But then it just went cold.
All of a sudden it seemed that he had no interest in me.
Work was more important.
Playing music was more important.
His friends and family were more important. I became desperately unhappy and my anxiety level went through the roof.
If he wanted a moment to himself, I took it as a rejection.
When he’d forget to take out the garbage, or not do things for me that he’d automatically done before, I felt frustrated – and then I started to feel scared that he’d NEVER take care of me again.
My fear caused me to start doing everything wrong. I started making dangerous mistakes, and pushing him so far away I might as well have been shoving him with my fists.
I tried everything I knew. I was nicer, I cooked more, I cleaned up more, I took care of our daughter and tried to stay out of the way when he was playing with her so they could have some one-on-one time.
I tried initiating sex and was turned down.
Over time, my husband withdrew more and more, and soon we turned to therapy… thinking it was the big move we needed to make that would fix things.
But all the therapy did was make me angrier – at him, and at myself for not knowing how to fix this… and for things being the way they were in the first place.
I thought we were done for. I felt helpless, hopeless, undesirable and stupid. And really, really angry.
That’s when I started to realize what was going on…
The light didn’t go on in my head overnight… but over time I learned to recognize what was at THE ROOT of everything that was going on in my marriage.
Our relationship was DISCONNECTED.
What was once a loving, committed, CONNECTED relationship had grown filled with distance, frustration and pain.
Remember when he whispered how much he loved you in your ear?
When he brought you flowers, remembered your favorite foods, called you to say “Hi” in the middle of the day?
Now when you spend time together, you feel that he’s not fully there. That he may “love” you, but isn’t IN LOVE with you anymore.
His touch is different. When he holds you and kisses you, he seems to be hanging back, almost as if his heart is closing up.
He hardly ever looks deeply into your eyes anymore, and conversation seems so superficial, instead of the personal, playful and romantic talks you used to have.
Not only do you feel the romance has completely disappeared, but you think the man you were once CRAZY about has completely changed.
Where he was once passionate, calling you all the time, making plans, affectionate, and attentive… He’s suddenly turned into a cold fish.
He calls less. He initiates sex less often.
He’s hardly ever available to spend time with you. He seems to be "busy" all the time.
He gets irritated VERY easily, and you’re always worried about "setting him off."
No matter what you do or how sweet you are, he just gets more and more distant. You feel powerless and confused, and you want the old "him" back.
Because he’s been so distant, and because you can’t seem to "please" him, you’re constantly worried that you’re driving him further away.
What if you say or do the wrong thing and he leaves you?
You feel paralyzed by your fear and anger.
All of this turns into a "vicious cycle" where the worse you feel, the worse he responds, and your relationship spirals downwards.
You try to talk about it with him, but that makes everything worse – every little word you say turns into a big argument, and soon you’re either fighting all the time, or you’re stuffing your real feelings down so deep inside you that you can barely feel ANYTHING.
It’s almost as though there never was any fun between you – now there’s only this horrible irritation and anger and upset and distance.
When our relationships become disconnected, nearly all women make these same mistakes. The things we instinctively want to do actually end up making the problem worse.
The thing that’s both frustrating and amazing about these mistakes is that we actually make them on purpose!
The exact things we were taught to do – the things I thought I was supposed to do – the things I saw ALL women doing – were the very things that push love away.
It seems so right to be understanding of his needs and his stress about work. It seems like the "cool" thing to do to give him "space" and "time."
If he doesn’t call, it makes sense to try to get in touch because we know how "busy" he is. It just seems that the smartest thing to do is make everything easy and fun for him, so he’ll want to be with us.
But instead of bringing him closer, this actually pushes him further away.
This happens for two main reasons:
One, being on the receiving end of too much "nurturing" from a woman reminds them of their mothers – and that’s just not sexy or appealing to a man.
And two, when a women is being too "understanding" of a man’s bad behavior he often experiences this as us being needy and insecure. Too many women pretend when he’s not loving, appreciating, or respecting them it’s okay.
But this doesn’t work for men, or for us.
In addition to constantly trying to make him happy, we also want to show HIM how to make US happy.
We want him to be affectionate, to tell us we look pretty, to confide in us, open up and connect with us.
But the moment we try to direct a man, both of us feel bad.
We feel unsatisfied because we had to ask. And our man feels badly because we’re clearly not happy with how he was doing things on his own.
For most of our lives, we’ve been taught to hold in certain kinds of feelings. And we’ve been taught to “put a good face on things.”
If we do this long enough, we lose the ability to express ourselves authentically. And when we DO express ourselves, it comes out sounding as if we don’t trust or respect our man, and he feels bad, like he’s let us down, and then he gets angry.
By the time my husband was withdrawing so much that I could no longer pretend it wasn’t really happening, I’d been “putting a good face” on things for a long time. I’d been doing the two mistakes over and over and over again. I was trying hard to prove I was the great wife I wanted him to see me as. I spent my life with him trying hard to get him to make me happy.
Until I finally tried something I’d never tried before. I STOPPED TRYING.
I stopped asking him to do things – and more importantly – I stopped doing them myself. I focused on making myself happy instead of trying to make HIM happy. I spoke to him differently and experimented with letting him know how I was feeling instead of keeping everything bottled up. And it worked.
Within about two weeks, everything changed. Once I experimented with a new way of doing things my man responded in a new way.
All the fights stopped.
Sex came back, strong.
It was as if there had always been the easy communication and love flowing between us that I was now experiencing.
And it was just so clear to me, and so obvious to everyone who saw us together that everything about our relationship was different and incredibly, newly wonderful.
The years and pain of all the trial-and-error I went through finally got me to the place where I was able to relate to men in a completely new way.
And that new way of being with men that makes it so that every single moment you spend with a man feels great and gets you closer to the relationship you want, is what I’m here to help you experience in my program, "Reconnect Your Relationship".
Whether you feel like you’re running out of options and every man you meet is the wrong man, or you’re tormented by the possibility that you could be, after all this time, in a dead-end relationship, there’s another way to get what you want…
My Reconnect Your Relationship program will teach you how to shift your words and body language so that your man will actually work hard to connect with YOU, rather than you struggling to connect with him.
You’ll finally understand WHY a man withdraws and what signals to look for that it’s starting to happen. You’ll get step-by-step How-To’s – so you can bring him back from the brink even stronger than the way he was when he first met you.
You’ll start to feel strong instead of at the mercy of a man, and learn how to quickly turn your old, limiting beliefs and out-of-control emotions and fears into a POWERFUL sense of confidence in yourself that will attract a man like a magnet and keep him wanting you no matter what.
You’ll find out exactly how to communicate with him in a way he’ll not only hear, but that will engage him and make him want to make you happy.
…plus an in-depth session where I answer questions from women like you – single, married, and divorced
Plus – When you purchase my Reconnect Your Relationship you’ll receive my love advice newsletter. Each message is packed with my Best Tools to provide you with ongoing support and inspiration.
I’m so excited to inspire you and your relationship that I’m going to let you try out my Reconnect Your Relationship program at absolutely no risk to you – you’ll have a full 7 days to try it out and decide if you’d like to keep it.
Because I want as many women as possible to benefit from this program, I’ve priced it at only 3 easy monthly payments of $54.97.
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“Reconnect your Relationship is exceptionally excellent… I’ve learned to become more feeling and expressive… Also, I’m not only applying that to my personal relationship, but to work relationships with men and women, too.”
“Life Changing! I saw positive results immediately… I felt 100% better about myself, my boundaries, what I want and also deserve.”
“So brilliant… I have two guys who are now in more communication with me. Thank you again Rori, I come from a family of psychologists – and you have helped me very much.”
You deserve a loving relationship.
You deserve to be happy.
When he actually feels that YOU’RE HAPPY, and that HE’S the one making you happy, he’ll be happy.
You’re suddenly more fun than his friends, than his hobbies – even more fun than the TV!
It can be like that, and it’s up to you to make it happen.
I know if I was able to do it – and I had as low self-esteem and as little clue about how to be with men as any woman I’ve ever met – then YOU can do it!
I know you’re smart, determined, and want the old, sad, up in the middle-of-the-night crying and crumb-taking relationship and place you used to be in to finally be over, forever.
You can do this. And I can’t wait to help you.