Picture this: it’s early morning, and as the sun shines through the curtains in your bedroom you feel the arms of your husband wrapped around you in a loving and strong embrace.
You feel his chest against your back. You smell his masculine scent. You feel his scruff on the back of your neck as he kisses you gently, and then with more urgency.
Your heart feels whole. Your body free and sensual. The energy between you practically vibrates, causing goosebumps of happiness to ripple across the surface of your skin.
His eyes sparkle with love and humor. He is proud you are HIS.
You feel loved, cared for, important, seen.
It doesn’t matter what the day’s agenda is. You could be spending a day cuddling on the beach, or just comfy at home doing chores and errands.
What matters is that you are together.
All the waiting, all the struggle, all the uncertainty and heartache… it was all worth it… for THIS man and this relationship.
Sounds too good to be true, right?
And you are right.
It is too good to be true… for many many women.
It’s too good to be true for women who don’t want to change. Who think it’s all up to the man. Who focus on their appearance and their body and sex to win his heart.
It’s too good to be true for women who want to keep using the same strategies that they’ve always used, and who don’t want to hear the truth about what’s holding them back in love.
It’s too good to be true for women who will keep taking crumbs.
Who feel so insecure and lonely that they stick it out with wishy-washy men who “aren’t ready”
Who put their man first… again and again… even when he isn’t doing the same for them.
Who keeps taking care of him but not themselves.
Yes, this beautiful morning vision of affection, sex and intimacy is too good to be true… for SOME people.
But not YOU.
I know it’s hard to believe.
I’m betting right now your love life feels very very far from the one I described above.
But I wouldn’t be a love expert (and a woman happily married for 30 years!) if I couldn’t confidently say that this is not only possible - but within reach sooner than you think.
Yes it will take some “undoing” (of some ineffective attraction strategies, or some communication patterns, or some skills that the world tells us “works” but really just pushes men away)…
But I’ve been where you are. Accepting crumbs. In despair as yet another boyfriend wasn’t “sure” about marriage. Feeling lost and alone on the kitchen floor, as my ever-more-withdrawn husband walks out the door (and possibly for the last time, which is what I feared!).
And I’m here to say that no matter what’s going on in your love life - whether your relationship is on the verge of a collapse, or your man “isn’t ready” or there’s no man at all…
This can change.
YOU can change.
And once you change (and make some specific, wonderfully effective changes in your words and “vibe”), everything else will too.
You Just Need A Little Help - But Not Just From Anyone. From The Very Best Love Expert Of The Last 20 Years.
It feels weird to brag, but it’s the truth that I am the biggest love expert of the last 20 years.
I wrote the first edition of my ebook 20 years ago, after spending 5+ years counseling women and helping women in crisis centers in LA.
Since then I’ve sold millions of ebooks and audio/video programs, and helped hundreds of millions of women through my free newsletters. I’ve written for eharmony, match, YourTango, MindBodyGreen, PlentyOfFish and everything in between.
I’ve trained hundreds of coaches in the Rori Raye method who now have a combined million of followers of their own.
And, most importantly, I’ve personally coached thousands of women in similar situations as yours, and watched them completely transform right before my eyes again and again.
And now I want to personally help you, too.
My programs are excellent overviews and guides to open your eyes to an entirely new way of connecting and being with a man so he can find you irresistible.
But some problems, and some repeating patterns, need more support and individual guidance than a program can provide.
Like when your relationship is falling apart and you don’t know what to do…
Or your longtime boyfriend keeps stringing you along and you are trying to get the commitment you crave…
Or your heart’s been broken… again… and you feel like you can’t start over…
Or you are desperate for a family, and your dates keep going nowhere…
Or your husband has cheated, or long distance boyfriend keeps stalling, or boyfriend of a year just up and ghosted you…
When these things happen, you want someone who can quickly diagnose the problem, point out your blindspots and give you the advice, tools and scripts that work in your exact situation with your specific man.
You need to know exactly what to say and do in YOUR scenario… to your husband, boyfriend, wishy-washy man or just string of disappointing dates, duds and everything in between.
You need to know if you are unintentionally sabotaging things, or choosing poorly, or just need some new love skills to change the results you are getting.
And you need to be guided with someone with enough experience, compassion and skills to get results… fast.
Every problem feels big when you are grappling with it. But not every problem needs the same level of support and consistent coaching to resolve.
Sometimes, we need a lot of help, and have decades of patterns we have to undo to learn how to show up as our feminine, juicy, irresistible selves.
Sometimes, we have a specific problem - like a hot and cold man - we need help navigating.
And sometimes your marriage is on the verge of collapse and needs immersive, sustained, 180 degree support.
That’s why I’ve put together 3 different packages… so you have options that you can choose from that will get your specific problem solved with the right level of time and money invested.
I’m committed to giving the best possible experience to the women I coach, and to make good on that promise, I’m limiting the number of clients I accept to just 20 women.
That means I might be sold out of the package you want… at least for now.
That’s why I created a wait list. So you can get priority access to the package you want when new openings become available.
If the package you want is not available, you can choose a different package or sign up for the wait list. Anyone on the wait list will be the first to get a chance to secure a slot as it becomes available. Sometimes you’ll be on the wait list for as little as a week, and sometimes it could take a couple of months. It depends on how many women are ahead of you on the list. (You can sign up for the wait list below).
If you have a specific, focused problem and want help diagnosing the cause and designing specific, proven tools and scripts to turn things around, this is for you.
Before we meet, you’ll fill out a short questionnaire to give me the background I need so we can jump into solving your problem in our first session. From there, we’ll identify where the problem lies, discuss possible solutions and create a customized action plan and personalized love scripts for you to use.
After you’ve had a chance to put the plan into action, we’ll have a follow up 30 minute call to assess if we need to adjust our strategy, refine our scripts and provide you with ongoing tools to help you prevent re-occurrence in the future.
I call this the SOS package because it’s perfect for emergencies, urgent and painful issues that need an immediate action plan.
It’s a fast, effective way to solve the problem, and give you tools and scripts you can use again and again.
If you’ve seen the same challenging problems follow you from relationship to relationship, or reoc cur in your relationship year after year, this is probably your best option.
Together, we will unearth the causes of your relationship challenges, and I’ll coach you to change how you approach them. We adjust our strategies based on the results you see, and can adjust the pacing of our sessions based on their impact on your love life.
In just 5 sessions, we’ll completely change how you “do” love.
You’ll learn how to express yourself (and we’ll create customized scripts for the scenarios you find most challenging, or to respond to the specific man in your life) in a way that draws him close.
And you’ll feel so confident in your new way of being, you’ll find it practically effortless to get his consistent love and affection.
You’ll learn to do so much less for love, and receive so much more.
And you’ll see instant results with the man in your life (or if there’s no man, you’ll have one soon!). He won’t know why he finds you so irresistibly attractive, but he’ll just know he can’t imagine his life without you.
By the end of your 5 sessions, you’ll feel like a completely different woman. You’ll show up differently, connect differently, express yourself differently, and be in your full Modern Siren power.
This 6 month intensive coaching package is for when your relationship is on the brink. Maybe he’s left after 15 years of marriage. Or you’re pregnant and he wants out. Or there is infidelity. Or a major life change on the horizon.
Whatever it is, you are going to need more help than the Makeover package can provide. (The Makeover package is probably right for most women, but if you are in severe distress, this package will get you through it!).
Because this is such an immersive process, I’ll only accept 2 clients for this at a time. After a 90 minute deep-dive session, we’ll meet twice a month for 6 months.
We’ll work on getting to the root of the problem, and also all the contributing factors in the dynamic with your man. We’ll completely transform how you show up in the relationship (and therefore completely change how he shows up too), and develop custom scripts and activities to bring you closer and orient you in your siren power.
Women who choose this option will have full access to all my group coaching programs, masterclasses and monthly live offerings. I want you to have as much opportunity to practice the material and ask me questions as possible.
I’ll be your north star, your fairy godmother, and your sister-in-arms. But most importantly, I’ll be your mentor and guide, and you will feel supported, seen and empowered to create the love life you’ve always wanted.
If you are ready to begin working with me, simply choose the appropriate package below and place your order.
Once you’ve completed your order, you’ll get immediate access to my calendly schedule, and can book your first session right away! (don’t worry, if you need more time you can schedule it later too!)
After you’ve booked your first session, I’ll send you a short questionnaire so I can gather background information. That way, we spend our time together SOLVING your problem, not giving me context. Please be sure to provide lots of detail so we can use our time together effectively.
We will schedule all follow ups after you’ve started putting our plan/ tools/ scripts into practice. You set the pace based on the urgency and results you are seeing!
It’s that simple! And of course, if you have any questions about private coaching, or about how the process works, email me at support@havetherelationshipyouwant.com. Be sure to put SOS or Makeover or Rescue in your subject line, so the email will be routed to the right person and you’ll get the fastest possible response!
Choose your package below, or join a waitlist to get priority access to new openings:
Price: $1197
Price: $2897
Or 3 monthly payments of $995
Price: $7499
Or 6 monthly payments of $1,259
I get that investing in private coaching is an investment. And I’d understand if you are thinking to yourself:
“Maybe my issues will eventually just resolve on their own… or once I meet the right guy, or once my husband completely changes.”
And maybe they will. I truly hope for you that they do.
But answer these 3 questions
honestly
:
1. How often has any emotional or relationship issue just vanished without you doing something to fix it?
2. How often does Mr Right come knocking at your door (especially if he never has before and your dating strategies to date have led to more lonely Saturday nights than you care to admit?)
3. How often does any man just change because YOU want him to?
If you’re like most women, your answers to the above questions are probably “once in a blue moon,” “still waiting” and “never!”
So you could wait it out and waste even more months, years and decades trying to unscramble the unsolvable puzzle that has been your love life…
or you could fast-track this process and get ALL the answers, Tools, and support you need to do a complete 360 in your love life
Working with me will give you a mental, emotional and physical experience of doing love differently. What this means is that you’ll FEEL what it’s like to lean back into your feminine power. You’ll PRACTICE how to speak, act and engage differently with men.
You’ll EMBODY decades worth of my best tools and naturally start using them to attract the right man, or to transform an on-the-rocks relationship into a success story that makes everyone around you secretly envious.
But more importantly:
This is the ULTIMATE gift to your future self.
You’ll be laying the foundations for your dream relationship by breaking old patterns and transforming into the kind of woman that makes a man take notice of and never want to leave!
You probably already spend so much money on self-care and making yourself “attractive” – such as getting your hair done, buying make-up, going to the the gym and indulging in a sexy silk two-piece lingerie set when the mood strikes.
And while all of these things might get a man’s attention… they’re superficial magnets.
They’re not what makes a man fall in love, and stay in love.
Knowing this, the question is then: why wouldn’t you invest in the one PROVEN thing that can fast track what you really want?
Because after working with me, you’ll know exactly how to speak directly to a man’s heart and nurture a deep, lifelong relationship.
Imagine instinctively knowing how to:
Yes! These sessions are just you and me. I’ll be with you every step of the way, helping you transform, guiding you, and customizing all the Tools, scripts and strategies so they work for YOU.
Most clients choose The Modern Siren Makeover, because it’s such a great value. It gives us enough time to really hone in on your blindspots and the skills you need to develop, as well as practice staying in your feminine energy and embodying your magnificent siren power to attract him like a magnet.
But if you just need help with one man and one specific, one-off problem, my SOS Package is for you. We won’t be practicing or roleplaying much, but we will get to the root of the problem and create customized solutions and scripts for you,
If your problem is significant (think divorce, major relationship rupture or repeated heartbreak and long-term singlehood) then the Relationship Rescue is for you. Some problems need more time and coaching, and I’m here for you if that’s what you need.
You can buy as many packages as you need, and existing clients will always get first dibs on my client openings.
I created a wait list so the women who are most interested in one on one support have first access when I have opening for more clients.
My goal is to help as many women as possible, but of course I can only support a fixed number of women at once. By having a wait list, I am able to address people on a first come, first serve basis, instead of just because someone happened to inquire at the right time.
You’ll see an option to join a given package wait list where you’d normally buy a package. If a package is sold out, you won’t be able to purchase it, and instead you’ll be given an option to join the waitlist.
People on the waitlist will be the first to know when more slots are open (and I’ll let you know in order that you joined the waitlist too - so if you are the first person on the waitlist, you get first dibs before the rest of the women on the list).
My goal is to help the women on my wait list as fast as possible.
If you’re tired of your love life not going as planned.
Or of reading endless self-help books and constantly Googling love advice.
And of trying so hard to work out your man… or of trying to find a man…
… then I’m about to change all of that for you.
Because when you work with me, you’ll get a tailor-made solution to your unique love problem so there’s no more:
– pushing high-quality men away
– second-guessing your worth
– feeling like you’re not enough
– being sabotaged by your blindspots
– wondering what to say or how to act around a man
– accepting crumbs and making yourself small
– feeling disconnected and hopeless in your relationship
In fact, I’ll make sure of it.
Given my expertise, you’d struggle to find another coach with as much experience (and with as many success stories) as me when it comes to guiding you on how to unleash your seductive feminine energy so you can attract and keep a quality man.
I’ll be able to spot the EXACT subconscious patterns and behaviors that have been sabotaging your love life – and then give you my tailored solution so you can FINALLY get the love that your heart yearns for – and 100% deserves.
So the question really is:
Are you ready to truly commit to what your heart truly desires? To no more wasting time and no more unnecessary heartaches because you have a tailor-made solution that’ll act as your north star directing you to the love story you’ve always fantasized about…
If so, I’m about to make your dreams a reality for you.
Enroll now so we can get started
Price: $1197
Price: $2897
Or 3 monthly payments of $995
Price: $7499
Or 6 monthly payments of $1,259