By Rori Raye
It’s a shocking idea – that all women, regardless of relationship status, should “date” other men. We’ve been taught that dating means “exclusivity” and marriage means “monogamy.” The thought of dating other men when you’re already in a relationship feels wrong and foreign to most women. It’s black and white – you’re either dating or you’re exclusive.
But there’s a much grayer area, and that’s how you relate to all men, everywhere, even when you’re technically exclusive or married. By dating other men or “dating” yourself and flirting, you can dramatically improve how you feel inside of any relationship and inspire more passion from him.
If you’re dating or in a relationship with a man who hasn’t yet fully committed to you, then you should keep dating other men. By doing so, you’ll feel that you have choices and you won’t invest all your time and energy into a man who isn’t sure yet what kind of future he wants with you.
Not surprisingly, this goes against everything women naturally believe about relationships. Women have been taught since childhood to believe that becoming a man’s “girlfriend” and being exclusive naturally leads to a long-term, committed relationship. This is a total lie!
The truth is, the moment a woman makes a man the center of her world is the moment he starts to feel less romantic about you. This is because as soon as the man senses that you’ve devoted yourself to him exclusively before he’s given you the commitment you want, he starts to think less of you. It’s a demonstration of weakness and lack of self-respect to him.
Being exclusive with a man does not automatically lead to lasting love and commitment. Keeping your options open and focusing on what you need will.
If you’re married, it’s not literally about going out on dates with men. You just flirt and let men come up and talk to you and then “date” yourself. You treat yourself to evenings out doing things that make you happy. You buy yourself things that make you feel beautiful.
By focusing on yourself and doing the things that make you feel warm and romantic and wonderful inside, you can completely change your vibe.
Having the right kind of vibe is the key to finding the right man and inspiring his love and devotion forever.
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Early on in my marriage, when things weren’t going well between my husband and me, I tried everything I could think of to fix it. I would talk, plead, argue with him. I would think about our problems and what he wanted almost non-stop. I made him the center of my world because I felt so desperate to make it work, but all it did was to push him away even further. Then a light went off in my head. I was focusing on the WRONG person! When I stepped back and stopped trying and doing, and just relaxed into my own skin, things completely turned around. I dated myself by doing things that honored what I needed, and his feelings changed for me overnight.
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